August 28, 2008 03:51 Published by Andrea Grace 0 Comments

Most babies are naturally early risers. Being up before the milkman is all part and parcel of being a parent of a young child, and to a large extent it is something that you have to accept and go along with.
In my experience, early waking problems are notoriously difficult to tackle, as when your baby has had a long block of sleep [even if it is not technically enough]he will find it very difficult to re settle. This is especially true in the 1 -2 year age group, when babies are only too aware of the delights of the coming day.

Putting your baby to bed later in the evening rarely makes any difference to the time that he wakes in the morning. This is because he is often “programmed” by both internal and external wake up triggers.

Parents vary in the opinions about what constitutes an acceptable getting up time for their baby, but generally, provided he wakes up happy - between 6am and 8am can be considered a normal wake up time for a baby. So when might early waking be considered a problem?

1. If your baby wakes before 6am and is crying and still looking tired.
2. If your baby has a ritual of a dawn waking and crying, followed by a milk feed or transfer to your bed – and then back to sleep.
3. If your baby is tired and grumpy on waking and then takes an early, lengthy daytime nap.

If any of the above factors sound familiar to you, then it is well worth considering some gentle sleep training in the early mornings to extend your baby’s sleep.

First of all, you need to take an honest look at your baby’s over all sleep ability. If early waking is part of a picture of generally poor settling and night waking, you need to address what happens at the beginning of the night and during the night first of all. You will get no where with morning sleep training if you do not have good bedtime settling practices.

If your baby’s early waking is part of his generally poor sleeping skills, you should concentrate on teaching her to fall asleep independently at the start of the night and on removing any incentives for night time waking. These include:

• Giving an unnecessary night feed
• Moving your baby into bed with you during the night
• Allowing her to play or watch a DVD during the night

You should then treat the early waking just as if it were a night waking; offering the same consistent response as you did at settling and night waking times. If you approach it in this way, you have a great chance of successfully stopping the early waking.

If you have sorted out any problems earlier in the night and your child is still waking  early, crying, rubbing her eyes and looking very tired, it is clear that she needs to sleep on for longer and needs your help to do so. It is not a good idea to leave her alone for a long period to cry, before going in to her, as you will teach her that in order for the day to begin she has to cry for you. This is not good start to the day for either her or you. It is better to go to her before she becomes upset, and praise her for being in her cot.

You need to tell her or indicate to her that it is still sleep time and then either remain beside her or keep popping in and out to her until you reach an acceptable getting up time. When you reach this time, you should open her curtains [even if it is still dark outside] before getting her out of her cot, just to give her a visual prompt/signifier that it is now getting up time. She will soon come to realise that when the curtains are closed it means that it is sleep time. If at the beginning of the night, you incorporate closing her curtains before she goes into her cot as a part of her settling routine, you will further reinforce this message. These visual time clues and routines are very important for babies, who obviously are not yet able to tell the time.

For the over 2 year olds, you can use a bunny training clock which at a time pre set by you, will “wake up” and let your child know that it is time to get up. [Just make sure that the clock is out of reach, as many clever toddlers have been known to wake bunny up all by themselves at 2am!]

When tackling your baby’s early waking, the first thing to aim for is that she simply stays in her bed or cot when she wakes up. Once she is able to do this, she will have the opportunity to go back to sleep.

If your child really struggles to go back to sleep, it is best to gradually extend the period that you expect her to lie in her cot or bed.

If you are using a sleep training clock or just simply opening the curtains as a daytime signifier you should:

• For the first morning, use the “getting up” prompt at the time that your child normally wakes up at first. This is so that she gets the hang of what is going on has a pleasant experience of the day time trigger.
• Setting it too late in the very early days will mean that your child may lose heart, laying in her bed watching for the day time signal.
• It is better to start at an achievable time and then move it forward by 5 minutes every morning until you reach an acceptable getting up time.

There is no doubt that early waking is one of the most tricky childhood sleep problems to overcome, but with patience, confidence and resolve – you will get there in the end.

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